Life to live

Once upon a time there was a person who had a deep desire to succeed more, and wanted to do so many things after making more money and acquiring few more assets.

Months passed, years passed, that person raised the bar of success and got busier and busier in work and asset creation, and forgot to enjoy life and speaking with friends, taking a holiday, a nap in the afternoon, walk in the garden.

Many years later the person reflected the way the life had panned out, only to notice that nothing fun was being done and all the time was spent in running behind success which was meaningless at the end when the person was in a hospital getting a dialysis done to stay alive and live for some more time.

 

Suddenly the person woke up from the bed, and realized it was just a dream, and that the person has full life to live and decide what to do with life.

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WHEN TO BE SILENT

1.  Be silent – in the heat of
     anger.

2.  Be silent – when you don’t
     have all the facts.

3.  Be silent – when you
     haven’t verified the story.

4.   Be silent – if your words
     will offend a weaker Person.

5.  Be silent – when it is time
     to listen.

6.  Be silent – when you are
     tempted to make light of
     holy things.

7.  Be silent – when you are
     tempted to joke about  sin.

8.  Be silent – if you would be
     ashamed of your word  later.

9.  Be silent – if your words
     would convey the wrong
     impression.

10. Be silent – if the issue is
      none of your business.

11. Be silent – when you are
      tempted to tell an  outright lie.

12. Be silent – if your words
      will damage someone  else’s reputation.

13. Be silent – if your words
      will damage a friendship.

14. Be silent – when you are
      feeling critical.

15. Be silent – if you can’t 
      say it without screaming.

16. Be silent – if your words
      will be a poor reflection
      of your friends and family.

17. Be silent – if you may  
       have to eat your words
       later.

18. Be silent – if you have
       already said it more
       than one time.

19. Be silent – when you are
      tempted to flatter a
      wicked person.

20. Be silent – when you are
      supposed to be working
      instead.

21. Be silent – when your
       words do not do any
       good to anyone
       including yourself.

“WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIS SOUL FROM TROUBLES”

7 Little Truths

 

Swami Vivekananda’s 7 Little Truths:

1st
Don’t let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced…

2nd
Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it and the person who doesn’t like you won’t believe it…

3rd
When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come…

4th
When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams.
Choice is yours…

5th
We make them cry who care for us.    We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, it’s strange but true. Once you realize this, it’s never too late to change…

6th
Don’t make promises when you are in joy. Don’t reply when you are sad.
Don’t take decision when you are angry. Think twice, act once…

7th
Time is like river. You can’t touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again

“Someone Asked Swami Vivekananda:
“What is poison?”
He had given a great answer:
“Everything excess in life, is poison”

Deep Roots in a Shallow Culture

In two independent houses,separated by a compound two people were living, in one a retired person and in the other a techie.
They had planted identical saplings on either sides of the compound.

The techie used to give lot of water and manure to the plants.The retired,just small quantity of water and little manure.
The techies plant grew into lush green,leafy robust plant.

The retired person’s plant was a near normal but much luxuriant than his neighbor’s.

One night there was a heavy rain with gusty wind.

Next morning both came out to see the fate of the plants.

To techie’s surprise his plant had got uprooted where as his neighbor’s was unharmed.
Techie asks the retired as why his plant was uprooted despite such a good care where as the neighbor had hardly cared.

The retired person’s answer should be a lesson for all of us.
Look young man, you had supplied every thing a plant would need,in abundance and the plant did not have to go in search of it.Your roots did not have go down. I was supplying just enough to keep it alive. For the rest roots had to go down into the ground to fulfil it’s needs. Since your roots were superficial the rain and wind could easily fell it.
Since my roots were pretty deeply grounded they could withstand the onslaught of the nature.
The same applies to your children too.

Parents

One who loves till you close your eyes, is a Mother.
One who loves without an expression in the eyes, is a Father.
__________
Mother – Introduces you to the world.
Father – Introduces the world to you.
_________
Mother : Gives you life
Father : Gives you living
__________
Mother : Makes sure you are not starving.
Father : Makes sure you know the value of starving
__________
Mother : Personifies Care
Father: Personifies Responsibility
__________
Mother : Protects you from a fall
Father : Teaches you to get up from a fall.
__________
Mother : Teaches you walking.
Father : Teaches you walk of life
__________
Mother : Teaches from her own experiences.
Father : Teaches you to learn from your own experiences.
__________
Mother : Reflects Ideology
Father : Reflects Reality
_________
Mother’s love is known to you since birth.
Father’s love is known when you become a Father.
_________
Enjoy what your father says.
Keep loving your mother